The Patros Podcast

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In this episode of the Patros Podcast, Allan and Jeff continue the Man As series with a special guest—Kam Babb, former Ohio State wide receiver and ministry leader. Together, they unpack what it means to be a Man as Servant Leader, looking to Jesus as the ultimate example of humility and service.
Kam shares powerful stories from his time at Ohio State, including the revival on campus, how young men are using their platforms for the kingdom, and how servant leadership is lived out in real life—from the locker room to the home. Allan and Jeff also reflect on their own journeys of fatherhood, leadership, and how God convicts us to serve our families the way He serves us.
This is a conversation full of practical wisdom, biblical truth, and encouragement for men who want to embrace healthy masculinity.
🔥 Highlights include:
Why servant leadership is countercultural but essential
How God used Kam Babb’s testimony to spark revival on campus
The importance of intimacy with Jesus in leadership
Real stories of conviction as husbands and fathers
What it means to keep the “main thing the main thing”
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In this episode of the Patros Podcast, Allan and Jeff continue the Man As series with special guest Pastor Kirk Kirkland. Together, they unpack what it means to be a man as a husband, exploring how marriage reflects Christ’s love for the Church and why identity in Jesus is the foundation of a healthy relationship.
Pastor Kirk shares openly about his own marriage, ministry, and discipleship journey, offering both practical wisdom and deep biblical insight.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
Why identity in Christ must come before achievement in marriage
How insecurity erodes relationships and how men can find true confidence
The role of discipleship, mentors, and community in sustaining a healthy marriage
Why creating safety is one of the most important things a husband can offer
Practical encouragement on worship, love languages, and leading at home
Why every man is called to be the pastor of his own home
This conversation will challenge, encourage, and equip you to love your wife faithfully and lead your family with strength and humility.
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In this Man As relaunch episode, Allan and Jeff sit down with Rev. Rudy Rubio — pastor, chaplain, and leader in South LA. Rudy’s story of grace, redemption, and gospel courage has made his episode one of the most impactful in the entire series.
They talk about:
How to stand for truth with boldness and humility in hostile environments
Why work is more than a paycheck — it’s a calling and Kingdom witness
The importance of discipling your kids at home instead of outsourcing to the church
Navigating politics, immigration, and community service through a biblical lens
Balancing marriage, family, and ministry without burning out
Rudy also shares behind-the-scenes stories from serving in Compton, as a hospital chaplain, and even as chaplain to the LA Dodgers.
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In this episode, Jeff Ford and Allan sit down with Erik Dellenback to explore the profound role of men as providers. They discuss the balance between work, family, and faith, highlighting the importance of intentionality and spiritual provision. Erik shares personal stories and insights from his time as a liaison for faith and community, offering a unique perspective on leadership and vulnerability. Tune in to discover how you can embrace your role as a provider in a meaningful way.

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Join us in this enlightening episode of The Patros Podcast as we explore the concept of being an "Image Bearer" with Pastor Darryl Williamson from Living Faith Bible Fellowship. Dive deep into discussions about healthy masculinity, the Imago Dei, and the importance of intergenerational dialogue within the church. Discover how the principles of the Bible guide us in understanding our roles as men, fathers, and leaders in our communities.
Chapters: Introduction to The Patros Podcast (0:00)
Understanding the Imago Dei (5:12)
Intergenerational Dialogue in the Church (15:45)
The Role of Fathers and Mentorship (25:30)
Embracing Identity in Christ (35:20)
Closing Thoughts and Encouragement (45:00)
Topics Covered: Healthy masculinity Biblical principles of manhood The Imago Dei and Imago Christi Intergenerational collaboration Fatherhood and mentorship Identity in Christ

In this launch episode of the Man As series, Allan and Jeff confront the growing crisis of fatherlessness—and the Church’s role in responding. With over 25 million children in the U.S. growing up without a dad, this isn’t just a cultural issue—it’s a spiritual one.
You’ll hear a preview of The Mandate film and a real conversation about:
The deep connection between fatherlessness and discipleship
Why men often feel aimless or spiritually unfulfilled
God’s call to defend the fatherless (Isaiah 1:17, James 1:27)
What it means to live out biblical masculinity in today’s world
Whether you're a father, mentor, single man, or leader, this episode is a challenge to step into your God-given role. This is more than a podcast it's a call to action.
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Scriptures: Isaiah 1, Matthew 25, James 1:27, Micah 6:8

Putting Faith into Action (Part 4 of 4 in the G.A.P. Series)Ezekiel 22:30 says God looked for a man to stand in the gap—and found none. In part three of our What is a Patros? series, we explore the “P” in G.A.P.: Putting Faith into Action.
Allan, Jeff, and guest Josh Weaver unpack what it means for a man to move beyond belief into living faith with intention and integrity—in his home, his church, and his community.
🎧 In this episode:
Why your private faith shapes your public life
How fatherhood awakens deeper spiritual responsibility
The challenge of spiritual leadership in marriage
Loving and discipling children you didn’t birth
The call to care for the widow, the orphan, and the overlooked
What real sacrifice looks like—and why it matters
This is a heartfelt, practical, and convicting episode for any man wanting to walk the talk. Whether you're married, single, a father, or not—if you want to live out your faith, this one’s for you.
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🎙️ What Is a Patros? | Anchored in Brotherhood w/ Daniel Grossman
Welcome to the Patros Podcast, where we’re embracing healthy masculinity and calling men to stand in the gap for their families, churches, and communities. In this episode, we dive into the “A” in G.A.P.—Anchored in Brotherhood—with special guest Daniel Grossman, Men’s Discipleship Leader at Man Up & Go.
Together, we explore what it means to be a Patros—a spiritual father—not just in your home, but to the fatherless. We talk mentorship, spiritual maturity, accountability, and the value of godly male friendships in today’s culture.
🧠 In this episode:
Why every man needs brotherhood—and how to find it
How to humbly seek a mentor and become one
Why isolation is dangerous and brotherhood is essential
Lessons from Scripture on spiritual community (Ezekiel 22:30, Proverbs 27:17, Romans 14)
Real stories of forging relationships that sharpen us
🔥 Big idea:
A Patros doesn’t walk alone—he’s anchored in brotherhood, being poured into, pouring into others, and living in authentic community.
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In Episode 2 of the Patros GAP series, Jeff, Allan, and Taylor Jackson unpack the foundational call for every man to grow spiritually. They dive deep into what keeps men from reading their Bibles, why rest is spiritual warfare, and how to develop a real prayer life that sustains you beyond hype or habit. This is more than a “how-to” episode it’s a convicting look at the spiritual disciplines that make or break a man’s legacy.

What is a Patros? More than just a Greek word for “father,” Patros is a calling—a deep, spiritual identity that reflects the strength, sacrifice, and tenderness of God Himself. In this kickoff episode of our 4-part series, we explore what it truly means to be a Patros in today’s world. We break down the origin and biblical use of the word, the role of fatherhood in human flourishing, and the tension every man faces: the need to be strong, yet gentle; seen, yet unseen; present, yet sacrificial. This episode is not just theological—it’s personal. Through raw and honest conversation between brothers, we unpack how our relationship with our earthly fathers shapes us, how father wounds carry into adulthood, and how Jesus reframed everything we thought we knew about what it means to be a son and a father. In This Episode: What the Bible means by Patros and how Jesus used it Why fatherhood is spiritual warfare and emotional discipleship How childhood experiences shape your adult relationships The difference between performance-driven fathering and gospel-driven identity Why “being seen” matters to dads—and what to do when you aren’t Three traits of a Patros: Growing spiritually, Anchored in brotherhood, Putting faith into action.